Matilda's Oh So Sexy Makeover

It's been a while since our last blog post but with good reason. As some of you may have noticed our super sexy online adult store recently got a new and sophisticated make-over. Our brand new sex toy and lingerie retail website is now on par and even better than some of the world's most well-known shopping portals. Go visit us here and see for yourself www.matildas.co.za

With our revamped and uber chic look we also felt it was time share the love. We often have requests for our gorgeous lingerie to be used in fashion shoots etc. Last month we were excited to take part in 2 photographic shoots which made use of our so very sexy lingerie sets.

The first shoot was for a local up and coming blogger-come-model who goes by the name of Juicy Jemma. Jemma dreams of escaping the rat race and becoming a professional actress one day. When Jemma asked us to assist with sponsoring her very sexy lingerie shoot we couldn't say no to this go getter!

Jemma chose the sexy Risque Lingerie set

Recently she had been working very hard at numerous sexy lingerie and swimwear shoots. Her FHM page showcases lots of flirty looks - go on and vote for her and help this ambitious young lady make her dreams come true.


The second photo shoot was for professional photographer Robert Miller who needed some seriously sensuous lingerie for an intimate shoot. We happily obliged and the results were quote stunning...

Model wearing the Juliette corset

Model wearing Ebony Garter Dress

Bringing Kink Into The Bedroom

photo © 2009 Markus Ram | more info (via: Wylio)

So you’re in love? The world is a happier place and you don’t really want to rock the boat. BUT you have a secret. A deep yearning for a something a little off beat in the bedroom. You’ve tried to ignore those sexy little thoughts, resisted the leather belt as he flings it on the floor after a hard day at the office but you can’t keep it in any longer – KINK is what you want!

So now you ask yourself “OMG what of he /or she thinks I’m a freak and I send my one true love running for the hills?”

Fear not. We’re here to take you whip in hand ( tee hee) step by step towards the subtle nuances and intricacies’ of introducing kink into your relationship.

So you want to be a Dominatrix?

This is not the hardest sell to most men– “You want me to lie on the floor and do nothing whilst you seduce and tease me?” DOOF – that’s the sound of your man collapsing on his back awaiting your demands.
As easy as it sounds some men are traditionalists– if you‘re not careful and leap out ball gags a blazing without any forewarning, your man may get a fright.

We suggest taking it slow at first (keep those electrical anal plugs aside for another time).To start try adding some light bondage accessories into your foreplay routine – i.e. satin restraints at first then work toward the more hardcore leather style cuffs.
Bring in a novelty whip and try out some playful test whacks to see how he reacts to some light spanking.

Start experimenting with light bondage gear and see if it gets his motor revving. Does the sight of his lady in skin-tight vinyl get him aroused? If so there’s a good chance he’ll be responsive to the naughtier accessories like leather collars, wrist-cuffs and leashes. (But please don’t use Fido’s old leash – something’s are just far too kinky even for us!)

photo © 2005 Paul Downey | more info (via: Wylio)


Not sure how he’ll feel about being bossed around?

Try some playful dirty talk. Start switching roles if he normally takes the lead. Throw in some instructions every so often, tell him where you want to be touched and if he’s eager to please then next time start making those instructions a little sterner.

Sooner than later your inner dominatrix will be free to unleash her strict and sexy style.

When it comes to introducing bondage toys into the bedroom always start slow and never do anything without making absolutely certain you partner is ready and willing to indulge in these fantasies. Penis style ball gags may be not be everyone’s cup of tea. Bring in the blindfolds and fluffy cuffs before making plans with the more hardcore paraphernalia.

Most importantly above all take your partners needs and desires into consideration , these may be your fantasies’ but for a truly out of this world experience you both need to be on the same page( or the WetGames SuperSheet if we keeping to this articles’ theme).

What's Your Lingerie Personality?

Ask yourself these questions and discover your sexy lingerie personality:

Would you tempt your man with a peek of your sexy garter set?

Are you more likely to tie your partner up than spoil him with a sexy massage?

Would an evening of champagne and chocolates spell romance?

Do you embrace figure hugging styles to charm your man?

We’ve pin-pointed the 4 Lingerie personalities that exist. Whether you are 100% Girly or an intoxicating mix of Retro come Bondage – we’ve made buying lingerie even more fun...

The Girly Girl - candy colours and lacy frills epitomise the Girly Girl. She delights in flirty lingerie that captures her playful nature whilst never showing too much skin. Soft lace babydolls in pastel colours work best to flatter this romantic spirit.


Bondage-Babe - leather and chain detail ignites fierce passion in this devil may care character. She doesn’t sit back and wait to be seduced. With the utmost confidence and no inhibitions, this woman is in control. Bondage style erotic lingerie and sexy cuff detailing enhance a no-nonsense attitude in the bedroom.


Retro-Lover - Katy Perry and Betty Page are your lingerie style icons. Bright colours and retro style lingerie that nip in at the waist and boost your bosoms accentuate your feminine charms. With oodles of sass and even more sex appeal this bubbly girl (in a bustier) next door will win your heart every time.



The Heartbreaker – she’ll steal your heart and tempt your soul. Glamour and utmost sophistication best describe this brazen beauty. When buying lingerie frills and frou-frou details will not do. Satin corsets, sexy garters and black silk stockings are the only option.


We have the sexiest selection of lingerie looks to flatter and flaunt this season. From luscious lace babydolls, seductive satin corsets, peek-a-boo bra sets and erotic lingerie. Feel free to let every side of your sexy self run wild with desire...

Plan a Sexy Valentines’ Voyage of Discovery...

photo © 2008 Mark Sebastian | more info (via: Wylio)

As Valentine’s Day approaches lovers countrywide are planning a myriad of memorable experiences for their special Valentine.

Flowers, roses and chocolates – sweet but hardly sexy! Why not use this special day to introduce a wild and wicked side to your relationship? Fluffy “I-Love You-Bears” and last minute flowers hardly send pulses racing these days...photo © 2009 Tim Schapker | more info (via: Wylio)


Treat your lover to a luxurious selection of Valentine’s gift ideas and sexy lingerie just perfect for those with an adventurous heart.

Be A Valentine’s Visionary
Turn your home into a decadent den of delight. Turn off the lights and whip out some scented candles with a difference - No potpourri scented candles allowed! Once your candles are lit, sprinkle some rose petals over your lover’s lair to create a truly romantic atmosphere.

Once the mood is set it’s time to lead your lover into the bedroom for a private strip-tease. Slowly reveal your luscious Valentine’s lingerie.

Granny Panties Beware! High-waisted knickers will not illicit desired results from your man- you have been warned.

Rather slip into a sexy lingerie garter set with some drop dead gorgeous stockings – nothing gets a man’s heart pumping quite like the sight of some sexy suspenders...


Shake it Sister!
Set the scene for a seductive striptease, all the while keeping his hands tightly bound with some sexy satin restraints. Remember those naughty wax candles? Well now’s the perfect time to melt some warm wax over your man and send him right over the edge.



When your man can’t possibly take anymore, that’s your cue to let the lingerie drop to the floor. His heart will stop when you reveal one more Valentine’s surprise – a glittering array of crystals highlighting all your best features.

To create a Valentine’s Day you will both remember, check out the sexy gift ideas and Valentines lingerie we’ve picked for especially for you.

Win with Matilda's

Treat yourself to a Happy New You in 2011!

Matilda's has joined forces with All4Women to bring you a fantastic competition.
Enter now and you could win a Matilda's hamper worth R1000.00 along with many other fantastic prizes...
Enter online and you might be pleasantly surprised!
Indulge in some "me time" with our range of sexy luxury toys and lingerie. You won't be sorry.

Sex Toys In A Man's World

Matilda’s is all about equality – equal fun for both genders in the toy department. This article is dedicated to all the men out there, and a reminder that things have certainly changed in the sex toy industry, this time, you’re being remembered too! Proof of this is evident in the range of men’s vibrators, anal toys and beads, cock rings and more male sex toys, available online through Matilda’s.

For the longest time, men have been sidelined when it came to great sex toys; women always seemed to have all the fun, with their naughty little toys, that came with all sorts of bells and whistles. So, it’s a bit of a relief to share that designers are coming up with some really hot male sex toys, like the Cobra for example, inspired by a throbbing motor machine; this male vibrator stimulates the tip of the penis bringing about some rather happy moments. On appearance alone, the sleek design of this male stimulator is testament to how technology has really advanced in this field.

It is little wonder that male masturbation toys have always been very popular amongst the guys and the somewhat infamous* Fleshlights have certainly aroused our male consumers. With a range that includes vibrating masturbators; ribbed Fleshlights and the latest “Avatar” Fleshlight for the movie fanatics, this range of male masturbation toys are firm favourites.

Ah sweet cock rings! Now there’s a simple invention that packs a might orgasmic punch! Cock rings constrict the blood flow in the veins, creating a rigid, well yes, cock, for your lover to ravage! The cock ring delays ejaculation which in turn keeps those bed posts rocking well into the night!

Forget the Austin Powers movie puns and seriously take a look at our range of Penis Pumps! The penis enlargers of today feature advanced technology to maintain strong erections. The Andromed and Bathmate are top quality men’s penis enlargement devices with proven results.

Male chastity belts. Yes, you read right... a masculine sex toy collection can now include a sexy penis locking device which tucks your package away beneath a wood, chrome or clear casing. There is nothing quite like a game in control!

Sadly, many men have had their nethers neglected for far too long, and perhaps now is the time to bring out the tease and awaken those pleasure zones with Matilda’s awesome range of male massagers. These sex toys massage the prostate, hailed by many as the as the male G-spot.

Matilda’s is proud to open the door to a candy land of men’s toys, regardless of what gets your rocks off, we have the perfect set of spanners to get your heart rate up, up and away!

*infamous only because there is a girl out there somewhere sulking because the Fleshlight is really, that good!

Lingerie - The Ace Up Your Sleeve

Have you ever received a last minute social invitation you just couldn’t say no to? You know, the sort that has you rushing out during your lunch break so that you can go buy that little black number? Inevitably, as girls do, we find said perfect little number, yank it over our work clothes to make sure it will do, and then with a quick swipe of plastic race back to the office, just in time for that all important board meeting. You think you have it under control. That is, until you realise at the eleventh hour, standing in front of your mirror, that your granny panties and wash day bra have turned you into the all time frump.

Your look is ruined by panty lines and an ill fitting bra and the dress now looks as impressive as a Salvador Dali painting left out in the rain. Ladies, never be caught out like this – be prepared and make sure that your lingerie drawer is well stocked with beautiful, fitting and very sexy lingerie, what ever your fetish, be it satin or lace!



You see, beautiful, well fitting and gorgeously sexy lingerie is absolutely paramount to creating that sophisticated, streamlined and polished look. So many women mistakenly believe that underwear is only important if you’re planning on getting your glad rags off. With the right selection of lingerie, your wardrobe is going to take on a whole new look. There is no excuse for a good dress to look bad because of rubbish underwear. Investing in some sexy lingerie is quite an adventure, there is simply so much to choose from, such as corsets, teddies, bustiers, silky stockings, chemise, thongs and g-strings, and the list just keeps on going!

Matilda’s Secret Lingerie Tips

If your summer look includes wearing loose fitting dresses, a pretty chemise would be the ideal item to wear for added modesty and will create a lovely drape underneath your outfit.

For that figure hugging frock, a corset or bustier is the way to go. Not only does your cleavage get a boost, your waist too will be tucked in creating a seriously sexy silhouette.

These days, corsets and bustiers are sometimes too beautiful to be worn underneath clothing and are an outfit in their own right. Be daring and flaunt your figure with a pair of jeans for a sexy new look!

If the gym is not flattening your tummy fast enough, nothing beats a bodysuit or a sexy teddy for creating a streamline effect under a pencil skirt.

There is absolutely no excuse for the dreaded VPL (aka visible panty line). Little lace thongs and sexy g-strings are all designed to ensure this fashion faux pas never makes its appearance amongst tight fitted pants or skirts.

If you’re going to a conservative event, but you so desperately want to wear that gorgeous blouse with the daring neckline, then we suggest a delicate lace camisole to create a classy, feminine touch.

So ladies, no excuse, there is something for every outfit out there and don’t forget that your choice in lingerie is as important as your outfit. Be brave and look beyond the plain cotton bra and panty set and explore the fantastically wide range of sensational lingerie Matilda’s has on offer.