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Discover a new and exciting way to find all of your favourite adult toys! We wanted to share all of our sexiest products with you so we've created some truly special videos that will help educate, entertain and entice those searching for the highest quality toys on offer. Here are some of our most fun favourites, we hope you enjoy them...! 
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Solving the Mystery of the Male P-Spot

That Goes Where?


Everyone knows about the glorified female G-spot. There are countless sex toys and endless articles on how to locate and stimulate a girl’s pleasure point. However, when you mention the P-spot, eyes glaze over and question marks riddle the brain. Some gifted folks know the ins and outs of prostate stimulation, but for most, the male orgasm is a matter of rubbing and tugging his manhood. It’s time to unveil the mysteries of the illusive and manly P-spot!

Simply put, the P-spot (AKA male G-spot ) is the male version of the female G-spot. Similarly to the G-spot, it can take some time, determination and patience to find the P-spot but once you do, you’ll be able to give your man the mind-blowing orgasms he deserves. There are also a myriad of fabulous prostate massagers & male sex toys designed for just this type of anal stimulation.

A Tough Case to Crack: Tracking Down the P-Spot

A lot of guys like having their perineum (the sensitive bit between the crown jewels and the anus) stimulated. While you’re gently grazing this erotic area, apply some lube and gently circle the anus. Press down several times, adding a little pressure each time. Once you’re ready and you feel that he is fully relaxed, gently penetrate his bum with your finger (make sure your nails are clipped). Take care to probe slowly and gently since the tissue of rectum walls is delicate and sensitive. Once you feel a small, chestnut sized bump, about two inches inward, you have found the almighty P-spot!

Stimulating the P-erpetrator

While most men thoroughly enjoy P-spot stimulation, which method they prefer varies individually. For some, thrusting action is effective while for others, intense and consistent pressure on the prostate will ensure explosive orgasms. A combination of techniques may also send your man skyrocketing! Look out for some of the top quality vibrating anal toys such as the Bad Boy Prostate Massager- simply out of this world!
When you’re simulating the P-spot, is the other P-word, patience, is absolutely necessary. Any successful backdoor play requires some time and gentle prodding. You want to make sure that your man is totally comfortable and able to enjoy his impending ecstatic orgasm. With a product like the Titus Prostate Massager, his perineum will feel delicious waves of stimulation while the prostate revels in intense sensations from the ribbed design.

Anal Ammunition

While the finger- or even the tongue- is plenty for first time anal explorers, male sex toys are also a fun option. Anal probes or butt plugs are awesome options for prostate and perineum stimulation. There are anal toys for both pros and amateurs, so pick your weapon and show-off your new found knowledge of the male anatomy. He’ll be like putty in your hands once he experiences your ability to please his P-spot!

Matilda's Oh So Sexy Makeover

It's been a while since our last blog post but with good reason. As some of you may have noticed our super sexy online adult store recently got a new and sophisticated make-over. Our brand new sex toy and lingerie retail website is now on par and even better than some of the world's most well-known shopping portals. Go visit us here and see for yourself www.matildas.co.za

With our revamped and uber chic look we also felt it was time share the love. We often have requests for our gorgeous lingerie to be used in fashion shoots etc. Last month we were excited to take part in 2 photographic shoots which made use of our so very sexy lingerie sets.

The first shoot was for a local up and coming blogger-come-model who goes by the name of Juicy Jemma. Jemma dreams of escaping the rat race and becoming a professional actress one day. When Jemma asked us to assist with sponsoring her very sexy lingerie shoot we couldn't say no to this go getter!

Jemma chose the sexy Risque Lingerie set

Recently she had been working very hard at numerous sexy lingerie and swimwear shoots. Her FHM page showcases lots of flirty looks - go on and vote for her and help this ambitious young lady make her dreams come true.


The second photo shoot was for professional photographer Robert Miller who needed some seriously sensuous lingerie for an intimate shoot. We happily obliged and the results were quote stunning...

Model wearing the Juliette corset

Model wearing Ebony Garter Dress

Bringing Kink Into The Bedroom

photo © 2009 Markus Ram | more info (via: Wylio)

So you’re in love? The world is a happier place and you don’t really want to rock the boat. BUT you have a secret. A deep yearning for a something a little off beat in the bedroom. You’ve tried to ignore those sexy little thoughts, resisted the leather belt as he flings it on the floor after a hard day at the office but you can’t keep it in any longer – KINK is what you want!

So now you ask yourself “OMG what of he /or she thinks I’m a freak and I send my one true love running for the hills?”

Fear not. We’re here to take you whip in hand ( tee hee) step by step towards the subtle nuances and intricacies’ of introducing kink into your relationship.

So you want to be a Dominatrix?

This is not the hardest sell to most men– “You want me to lie on the floor and do nothing whilst you seduce and tease me?” DOOF – that’s the sound of your man collapsing on his back awaiting your demands.
As easy as it sounds some men are traditionalists– if you‘re not careful and leap out ball gags a blazing without any forewarning, your man may get a fright.

We suggest taking it slow at first (keep those electrical anal plugs aside for another time).To start try adding some light bondage accessories into your foreplay routine – i.e. satin restraints at first then work toward the more hardcore leather style cuffs.
Bring in a novelty whip and try out some playful test whacks to see how he reacts to some light spanking.

Start experimenting with light bondage gear and see if it gets his motor revving. Does the sight of his lady in skin-tight vinyl get him aroused? If so there’s a good chance he’ll be responsive to the naughtier accessories like leather collars, wrist-cuffs and leashes. (But please don’t use Fido’s old leash – something’s are just far too kinky even for us!)

photo © 2005 Paul Downey | more info (via: Wylio)


Not sure how he’ll feel about being bossed around?

Try some playful dirty talk. Start switching roles if he normally takes the lead. Throw in some instructions every so often, tell him where you want to be touched and if he’s eager to please then next time start making those instructions a little sterner.

Sooner than later your inner dominatrix will be free to unleash her strict and sexy style.

When it comes to introducing bondage toys into the bedroom always start slow and never do anything without making absolutely certain you partner is ready and willing to indulge in these fantasies. Penis style ball gags may be not be everyone’s cup of tea. Bring in the blindfolds and fluffy cuffs before making plans with the more hardcore paraphernalia.

Most importantly above all take your partners needs and desires into consideration , these may be your fantasies’ but for a truly out of this world experience you both need to be on the same page( or the WetGames SuperSheet if we keeping to this articles’ theme).

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Bringing Sex Toys Into Your Bedroom

Is it time to bring in the Sex Toys? It’s inevitable, the two of you have been having crazy sex for some time, the chemistry is nuclear but somehow, sex has become a bit of a routine lately...

Open communication between couples is absolutely vital, so one should always broach the subject of introducing some naughty adult toys into the bedroom with love. We do not recommend that you spring a vibrator on an unsuspecting lover, rather communicate first and set up some boundaries. It is believed that those who use sex toys tend to have good, open channels of communication and complete and utter love for and trust in their lovers. Sex toys are great tools through which to allow guys and girls to take their sex lives to a whole new level, allowing both to find pleasure through mutual satisfaction. It is absolutely important to keep your sex life fresh, fun and exciting.

So, it’s out with the yawn fest and in with our luxury sex toys; be they cock rings or clitoral vibrators, with these beauties in hand; you’re going to set the bedroom on fire!

So what’s the deal with erotic toys and why do you need them?

It’s been said that couples who indulge in a bit of erotic toy play perform better beneath the covers. Teasing a woman’s clitoris with a vibrator during oral sex will give her an orgasm that will have her clenching her thighs together in memory long after the pleasure was all hers! And the same can be said for our men. Teasing a man’s anus or testicles with the same vibrator during oral sex will leave him in absolute raptures! With so many sex toys available, from cock rings, specialist male sex toys, female sex toys and clitoral vibrators, there is no excuse for play time to ever become dull. The only way you’re ever going to know what knocks off your socks, is for you to try!




There is also an added benefit to dabbling with sex toys... they allow for extended lovemaking!
Now we know that women are lucky minxes in that they can have multiple orgasms during sex and men unfortunately cannot. Hence, when Mr Man reaches absolute orgasm his erect penis takes a bit of a leave of absence and it is here that a sex toy can keep his woman moaning for so much longer while his body recovers from sheer bliss. That said, there is absolutely no harm in allowing a woman to reach orgasm with the use of a sex toy first, and then sliding in for a bit of bliss timeshare yourself. It’s all about sharing the love!


Okay, so how do you go about this sex toy business?

We suggest that you start off with the little saucy gadgets you can use together. Cock rings, clitoral massages or vibrators and a pair of handcuffs, thrown in for good measure, can really getting things nice and toasty! Massage oils, creams and lubricants come in handy when you’re simmering up the sexual heat. (Lube is fantastic to partner up with some sex toys!) When you are both ready to get electronic, experiment with vibrators, the ideal couple’s toy. Listen to your man, if he is adventurous and wants to try out some male toys, why not get him some anal beads, butt plugs or a vibrating cock ring?



Have we tweaked your interest? Don’t be shy now, just browse through Matilda’s extensive range of couple’s sex toys with your special someone and we know we’ll get you both perky in no time!

All about Enhanced G-spot stimulation

batorThis is a fun and extremely practical guide for you and your partner. We've left medical technicalities out wherever possible, and just left bare truth and useful details. If you haven’t been having enough mind-numbing G-spot action – or if you haven’t yet had a G-spot orgasm, we’d like to give you and your partner a few tips that might make your sex life a whole lot better.

"That melting feeling turns your body into a circus, where you can lose all track of moisture...”

The G-Spot Crash-Course

You need to know the absolute basics first. If you don’t yet know where her g-spot is, then look at the picture. That’s it there. It’s about 4 or 5 cm inside the vaginal opening, and it feels as though it’s almost up against the pelvic bone. It’s actually easily accessible, but knowing where it is (or should be) isn’t nearly enough. All women have a g-spot, but bodies are different and can have different results. It’s not a one-click orgasm – Sometimes it takes a good few tries to understand it, and then suddenly it’s there and SO intense – but only after 5 tries or so. Once mastered, an orgasm is 30 seconds away.

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Best Practices for Sex Toy Hygiene

Cleanliness, as it is said, is close to godliness. So, if you want to keep those heavenly orgasms going then cleanliness is a nonnegotiable. For all you need to know and for all the things you’ve yet to learn… read on!

Moisture provides bacteria with the perfect environment in which to thrive so it is crucial to keep both you and your toys in good health. Some sex toy materials are porous which means that they are absorbent. It is strongly recommended that you read the technical info that comes with your toy so that you have a better understanding of what you have in your hands.

"Is sex dirty? Yes, if it's done right..." Woody Allen

There is the wrong way and then, there is the right way. Here’s how:

You’ve flung the pillows across the room, your clothes are scattered all over the place and you’re resting all aglow and breathless with your partner following some rather epic toy playtime. A quick dash to the bathroom, a quick splash over the toy and its rammed into that secret drawer until next time…

What you don’t know however is that while the toy quietly waits for the next time, it’s doing so in a rather funky state.

Although a “hey it looks clean so it must be clean” approach works for a white shirt, don’t assume that the same applies to your sex toys. It is recommended that you wash your toys with warm water and a (very) mild soap. Once done with the splashing, dry the toy with a lint free cloth or allow to air dry properly. We know you will all agree that body hygiene is critical and no one likes anything untoward going with their nether regions. So, keep it fresh, not funky!

DO NOT even think about using talcum powder or baby powder to hurry up drying time. Unless you are more than happy to your most intimate of areas in a perpetual state of irritation! Trying to find discreet ways to have a quick scratch or master a swagger like John Wayne is just not sexy!

Toy Cleaner should be in your bathroom cabinet.

Choose a recommended brand like Pjur

Where possible, use a toy cleaner! With so many adult sex toys made from various materials, cleaning them can seem a bit tricky. Some materials are slightly porous which means your little wand of bliss can and will absorb odours and fluids from the body. If not cleaned properly, the bacteria left on the toy will result in the aforementioned John Wayne swagger – simply put, it can irritate your skin and you will feel miserable for it. For this reason, some bright people came up with the idea of producing toy friendly, anti-bacterial cleaners, sprays and fleeces to help all of us maintain our toys longevity and feel, Good for them, its also good to your body. We’ve done the research and saved you a trip to the doctor with the “I have  no idea how THAT happened” drama class.

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