Solving the Mystery of the Male P-Spot

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Everyone knows about the glorified female G-spot. There are countless sex toys and endless articles on how to locate and stimulate a girl’s pleasure point. However, when you mention the P-spot, eyes glaze over and question marks riddle the brain. Some gifted folks know the ins and outs of prostate stimulation, but for most, the male orgasm is a matter of rubbing and tugging his manhood. It’s time to unveil the mysteries of the illusive and manly P-spot!

Simply put, the P-spot (AKA male G-spot ) is the male version of the female G-spot. Similarly to the G-spot, it can take some time, determination and patience to find the P-spot but once you do, you’ll be able to give your man the mind-blowing orgasms he deserves. There are also a myriad of fabulous prostate massagers & male sex toys designed for just this type of anal stimulation.

A Tough Case to Crack: Tracking Down the P-Spot

A lot of guys like having their perineum (the sensitive bit between the crown jewels and the anus) stimulated. While you’re gently grazing this erotic area, apply some lube and gently circle the anus. Press down several times, adding a little pressure each time. Once you’re ready and you feel that he is fully relaxed, gently penetrate his bum with your finger (make sure your nails are clipped). Take care to probe slowly and gently since the tissue of rectum walls is delicate and sensitive. Once you feel a small, chestnut sized bump, about two inches inward, you have found the almighty P-spot!

Stimulating the P-erpetrator

While most men thoroughly enjoy P-spot stimulation, which method they prefer varies individually. For some, thrusting action is effective while for others, intense and consistent pressure on the prostate will ensure explosive orgasms. A combination of techniques may also send your man skyrocketing! Look out for some of the top quality vibrating anal toys such as the Bad Boy Prostate Massager- simply out of this world!
When you’re simulating the P-spot, is the other P-word, patience, is absolutely necessary. Any successful backdoor play requires some time and gentle prodding. You want to make sure that your man is totally comfortable and able to enjoy his impending ecstatic orgasm. With a product like the Titus Prostate Massager, his perineum will feel delicious waves of stimulation while the prostate revels in intense sensations from the ribbed design.

Anal Ammunition

While the finger- or even the tongue- is plenty for first time anal explorers, male sex toys are also a fun option. Anal probes or butt plugs are awesome options for prostate and perineum stimulation. There are anal toys for both pros and amateurs, so pick your weapon and show-off your new found knowledge of the male anatomy. He’ll be like putty in your hands once he experiences your ability to please his P-spot!

Sex Toys In A Man's World

Matilda’s is all about equality – equal fun for both genders in the toy department. This article is dedicated to all the men out there, and a reminder that things have certainly changed in the sex toy industry, this time, you’re being remembered too! Proof of this is evident in the range of men’s vibrators, anal toys and beads, cock rings and more male sex toys, available online through Matilda’s.

For the longest time, men have been sidelined when it came to great sex toys; women always seemed to have all the fun, with their naughty little toys, that came with all sorts of bells and whistles. So, it’s a bit of a relief to share that designers are coming up with some really hot male sex toys, like the Cobra for example, inspired by a throbbing motor machine; this male vibrator stimulates the tip of the penis bringing about some rather happy moments. On appearance alone, the sleek design of this male stimulator is testament to how technology has really advanced in this field.

It is little wonder that male masturbation toys have always been very popular amongst the guys and the somewhat infamous* Fleshlights have certainly aroused our male consumers. With a range that includes vibrating masturbators; ribbed Fleshlights and the latest “Avatar” Fleshlight for the movie fanatics, this range of male masturbation toys are firm favourites.

Ah sweet cock rings! Now there’s a simple invention that packs a might orgasmic punch! Cock rings constrict the blood flow in the veins, creating a rigid, well yes, cock, for your lover to ravage! The cock ring delays ejaculation which in turn keeps those bed posts rocking well into the night!

Forget the Austin Powers movie puns and seriously take a look at our range of Penis Pumps! The penis enlargers of today feature advanced technology to maintain strong erections. The Andromed and Bathmate are top quality men’s penis enlargement devices with proven results.

Male chastity belts. Yes, you read right... a masculine sex toy collection can now include a sexy penis locking device which tucks your package away beneath a wood, chrome or clear casing. There is nothing quite like a game in control!

Sadly, many men have had their nethers neglected for far too long, and perhaps now is the time to bring out the tease and awaken those pleasure zones with Matilda’s awesome range of male massagers. These sex toys massage the prostate, hailed by many as the as the male G-spot.

Matilda’s is proud to open the door to a candy land of men’s toys, regardless of what gets your rocks off, we have the perfect set of spanners to get your heart rate up, up and away!

*infamous only because there is a girl out there somewhere sulking because the Fleshlight is really, that good!

Bringing Sex Toys Into Your Bedroom

Is it time to bring in the Sex Toys? It’s inevitable, the two of you have been having crazy sex for some time, the chemistry is nuclear but somehow, sex has become a bit of a routine lately...

Open communication between couples is absolutely vital, so one should always broach the subject of introducing some naughty adult toys into the bedroom with love. We do not recommend that you spring a vibrator on an unsuspecting lover, rather communicate first and set up some boundaries. It is believed that those who use sex toys tend to have good, open channels of communication and complete and utter love for and trust in their lovers. Sex toys are great tools through which to allow guys and girls to take their sex lives to a whole new level, allowing both to find pleasure through mutual satisfaction. It is absolutely important to keep your sex life fresh, fun and exciting.

So, it’s out with the yawn fest and in with our luxury sex toys; be they cock rings or clitoral vibrators, with these beauties in hand; you’re going to set the bedroom on fire!

So what’s the deal with erotic toys and why do you need them?

It’s been said that couples who indulge in a bit of erotic toy play perform better beneath the covers. Teasing a woman’s clitoris with a vibrator during oral sex will give her an orgasm that will have her clenching her thighs together in memory long after the pleasure was all hers! And the same can be said for our men. Teasing a man’s anus or testicles with the same vibrator during oral sex will leave him in absolute raptures! With so many sex toys available, from cock rings, specialist male sex toys, female sex toys and clitoral vibrators, there is no excuse for play time to ever become dull. The only way you’re ever going to know what knocks off your socks, is for you to try!




There is also an added benefit to dabbling with sex toys... they allow for extended lovemaking!
Now we know that women are lucky minxes in that they can have multiple orgasms during sex and men unfortunately cannot. Hence, when Mr Man reaches absolute orgasm his erect penis takes a bit of a leave of absence and it is here that a sex toy can keep his woman moaning for so much longer while his body recovers from sheer bliss. That said, there is absolutely no harm in allowing a woman to reach orgasm with the use of a sex toy first, and then sliding in for a bit of bliss timeshare yourself. It’s all about sharing the love!


Okay, so how do you go about this sex toy business?

We suggest that you start off with the little saucy gadgets you can use together. Cock rings, clitoral massages or vibrators and a pair of handcuffs, thrown in for good measure, can really getting things nice and toasty! Massage oils, creams and lubricants come in handy when you’re simmering up the sexual heat. (Lube is fantastic to partner up with some sex toys!) When you are both ready to get electronic, experiment with vibrators, the ideal couple’s toy. Listen to your man, if he is adventurous and wants to try out some male toys, why not get him some anal beads, butt plugs or a vibrating cock ring?



Have we tweaked your interest? Don’t be shy now, just browse through Matilda’s extensive range of couple’s sex toys with your special someone and we know we’ll get you both perky in no time!